So on Tuesday I slipped and whacked my shin on the tub.

For those of you playing along at home, this is really similar to the May 2005 injury. Okay, same injury, different leg, not quite as severe. 

The result, I'm walking with a cane until my leg and ankle decide to behave, stop swelling and function properly.

I've also decided I'm not accident prone; I'm gravitationally prone.


So I'm on the bus, with my cane, and my priority seating pass, and a bag of groceries on the ground in front of me and a man gets on the bus and demands my seat. The other 5 empty priority seats were unacceptable, he wanted mine. I offered him the seat next to me and across from me, but this was unacceptable. I'm sitting there, with my cane and groceries and he wants me to move. I really wish I knew what the problem is with some of these people. I eventually moved after close to 2 minutes of him insisting he needed my seat.

*a cane is not a weapon*


From: [identity profile] okcismelanie.livejournal.com


hrmmm the cane "could" be a weapon.....

I think that some people are just so unhappy in their life that the only thing that could ever bring them joy is to make everyone else as unhappy as they are-don't let them win!

I wouldn't of moved for that dude.....and I may of hit him with the cane if I was in your shoes! (really hard)

From: [identity profile] waterspyder.livejournal.com


I get grouchy when I can't walk properly, so I think I get to be overly sensitive to some of these things, or maybe I just have a problem with perceived authority...

I have to figure out how to make the busride more enjoyable


From: [identity profile] evilbitchqueen.livejournal.com


Headphones/Music player or a Book. Always work for me when I want to ignore someone being blatently stupid/rude on the bus.

From: [identity profile] sivi-volk.livejournal.com


I don't think I understand. There were empty seats, right? And ones similar to yours?

It's not that I doubt your account, it's just that the events you describe make no sense.

From: [identity profile] waterspyder.livejournal.com


They don't make much sense to me either

The only thing that I can assume is that he wanted the seat next to a pole where he could also see out the front of the bus. Not that he said anything other than "Give me that seat"

From: [identity profile] waterspyder.livejournal.com


I vote yes

I'm undecided if senility is a real mental disability though.

From: [identity profile] feli-valkyria.livejournal.com


It may depend on location. Some people need to be close to the doors because they have panic disorder related to crowds for example. I doubt that's what happened in that situation though.

From: [identity profile] waterspyder.livejournal.com


I'd hope most people in that situation could at least say "I need to sit close to the doors" rather than "Give me the seat"

I can relate... I'm agoraphobic

I'm also fond of the word "please"

From: [identity profile] queenie-writes.livejournal.com


You know, this would be one of those times you can borrow my rage. Honest. If I was you, I'd say, "See this cane? unless you can give me a really good excuse why I should move myself when I am sick, I'll shove it right up your ass if you don't find another seat."

Seriously. Sometimes people NEED to be told off.

From: [identity profile] waterspyder.livejournal.com


I think people are cranky. It's one of the least reliable bus routes in the city and it's plagued by schduling problems. By the time people get on the bus, and are sandwiched by 4 high school's worth of students... they're usually in a bad mood to start with. I also ride it for 45 minutes to and from work... so there is plenty of time and opportunity for wierdness.

From: [identity profile] simply-fiendish.livejournal.com


C'mon! Use the cane as a weapon. At least discreetly. :P
When I have to use my cane and on the very rare occasion there is an asshole in my midst, I simply walking by them and "accidentlly" jam my cane on top of their foot as I walk by or slightly shift my cane out for them to trip on. I look all innocent, apologize for my klutziness and they say nothing, mostly because they do not want to look like an asshole yelling at someone with a cane.

From: [identity profile] xliquid-dreamsx.livejournal.com


OUCH! Sorry to hear you've managed to hurt yourself. I so wish I'd been with you so I could have smacked that guy with your cane. That would have brightened my entire day! =D
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