So lesbianism is gross?

[waterspyder]

And so I had to scratch my last lover off of the list. Turns out he thinks lesbianism is repulsive. I'm wondering how I missed that discussion earlier. In any case, that's enough to disqualify him regardless of if I ever intended to share a girl with him or not. Silly boys.

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[torrain.livejournal.com]

Certainly fair enough. I'm not saying you behaved at all unreasonably; I just wanted to point out (more in response to feli_valkyria's comment than to you) that there's a difference between thinking something is gross and thinking it's wrong. There are things theweaselking likes that I think are gross (Cheez Whiz comes immediately to mind--dear Christ, that stuff is disgusting), but a lot less things that I think are wrong (which is good, or I wouldn't be dating him).

(Sidenote: Decision appears to make sense. I doubt that anyone who tells you not to talk about it (as opposed to warning you they're not comfortable with it and asking you to be patient with them if you talk about it, which is really the best you can hope for when someone isn't comfortable with some aspect of you) is worth keeping around.)