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waterspyder ([personal profile] waterspyder) wrote2005-05-29 02:26 pm

For clarification

I feel compelled to point something out.

I don't have a lot of time.

I work full time and go to class full time.

My Monday to Frdiay is from 9am to 9:30pm.

Here's the problem, a lot of people are not respecting my personal space and time. When I get home and turn on my computer to download notes from my smartpad, or to read my e-mail for the first time in a day or two I don't appreciate the accusations that I'm avoiding someone in particular. I don't have enough time to cook for myself, let alone dedicate myself to avoiding someone.

I'm avoiding everyone.

I am very close to graduating, and on June 17, I will be released to the world, but before then, I have very little time, energy and patience to devote to personal drama. I try to make it out when I can, and as selfish as it seems, I am really only seeing people on my terms. Feel free to extend the invitation, but don't get insulted when I don't accept it.

Assuming my reasons and motivations is a very fast way to ending a friendship with me

I am a week behind on submitting my final essay for a course, and if I don't hand it in, I don't graduate.
YES, this IS more important than engaging in smalltalk.

So please, just respect the situation even if you don't understand it.

[identity profile] simply-fiendish.livejournal.com 2005-05-29 07:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Amen.

[identity profile] mattcobill.livejournal.com 2005-05-29 07:53 pm (UTC)(link)
It is the ability to enjoy silence that makes us enlightened individuals

[identity profile] oni-neko.livejournal.com 2005-05-29 10:13 pm (UTC)(link)
good luck with everything. take as much time as you need to.
see you whenever.

[identity profile] tibialmusician.livejournal.com 2005-05-30 03:46 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs* sorry if i've been causing trouble. (not sure but wanna be safe anyways) if theres anything i can do to help lemme no

[identity profile] feli-valkyria.livejournal.com 2005-05-30 05:04 am (UTC)(link)
good luck :)

[identity profile] valkyriejack.livejournal.com 2005-05-30 05:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Good luck with finishing school darlin'. I understand. I'll be around.

[identity profile] waterspyder.livejournal.com 2005-05-31 11:17 am (UTC)(link)
Josh is gragging me to CACE this weekend, rumour has it you'll be there?

[identity profile] valkyriejack.livejournal.com 2005-05-31 04:54 pm (UTC)(link)
No we won't be. Ryan's working a 6 day week this week, and there's no way we can get out there. *heavy sigh* I'm hoping that he'll get a weekend off next month where we can come out there to see all of you guys. I miss you.

[identity profile] waterspyder.livejournal.com 2005-06-01 07:28 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs* I'm sorry to hear that. I promise I'll visit when I come down to Toronto

[identity profile] valkyriejack.livejournal.com 2005-06-02 03:25 pm (UTC)(link)
As it's tentatively planned we should be out there sometime this month. hopefully so. *corsses fingers*

Cool. Yeah, we'll have to get together when you do come down.