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[waterspyder]

I would like to remind people that what are considered assets by some, are hindrances to others.
I dislike that you can see what people choose, because I think it causes people to be more sensitive to your feelings.

http://kevan.org/johari?name=Waterspyder

Comments

[krueger.livejournal.com]

Don't know you well enough yet.

[feli-valkyria.livejournal.com]

I'm doing the Johari because I want to see if other people view me in certain ways that I can't imagine myself as. We are our own worst critics, after all.

I am not going to be upset with others for picking things normally seen as negative traits on the Johari as I know that we all have our good and bad traits (to be interpreted as you design them).

I also think there's room for interpretation for some of the words -- ie. proud could be seen as either negative or positive depending on the context.

[waterspyder.livejournal.com]

Some people think "shy", "assertive" and "introvert" are criticisms.

[feli-valkyria.livejournal.com]

Really? Wow. I don't think they are necessarily criticisms.

I take pride in being an introvert :P ... Hehe.

[waterspyder.livejournal.com]

the problem is much of our society thrives on extroversion. People who prefer solitary work versus group efforts are wierd.

I think it's much preferred.

[queenie-writes.livejournal.com]

yeah I noticed that after answering one. It bugs me too.

I'm gonna put fake names in from now on. :P

[waterspyder.livejournal.com]

I think that's totally legit